Meet them where they are

Way of the Koi offers compassion based Birth Classes for parents by Skype and unique training packages for Birth Workers in Bristol and beyond.  All Compassionate Birth Workers are personally mentored by Nicola; offering a support package like no other.

By threading Way of the Koi principles throughout your practice you will find yourself imparting to your clients a quiet and compassionate confidence that empowers them to work in partnership with their care givers and to remain fluid and calm in their journey.

Compassionate Birth Worker Training

Compassionate Hypnobirthing Teacher Training

Private Compassionate Hypnobirthing Teacher Training

Beyond Rebozo (RCM accredited) Workshops


What is the Way of the Koi?

The Way of the Koi is a simple, compassion based approach to holding space for others during their unique birth journey. It is a mind-set; a philosophy if you will. It's about tools, not rules. Through the compassion based principles which are threaded throughout our courses and workshops you will be encouraged to embrace your personal journey without judgement, enter into a journey of self-discovery and learn to meet others where they are without agenda. We use the legend of the Koi to illustrate a self-compassionate, fluid approach to Birth Work.

The legend of the Koi teaches us to never waver in our determination, yet remain fluid. The Koi cannot swim if rigid; she would be unable to navigate the waters as she encounters them. The Koi teaches us to swim past our obstacles in quiet determination. The Koi does not 'go with the flow' (only dead fish go with the flow) but it follows its own instincts; up stream. This is an ancient tale of a journey with meaning and purpose; a journey requiring bravery, perseverance and strength of purpose which ultimately leads to transition and transformation.

"Thank you Nicola for an inspiring workshop. I learnt so much and yet your message is so simple! I loved the style of your teaching and I am left feeling very excited about incorporating everything I learnt into my practice." -Victoria (Doula)

Way of the Koi draws deeply upon the philosophy of "beginner's mind." It refers to having an attitude of openness, eagerness, and lack of preconceptions when studying a subject, even when studying at an advanced level, just as a beginner in that subject would.

Welcome to Way of the Koi

"In the beginners mind there are many possibilities;

In the experts mind there are few." - Shynryu Suzuki

Amazing art work credit (Koi Mama Water Birth): Huge thanks to Brittney Pelloquin / for giving her kind permission so generously.

One size doesn't fit all.

Way of the Koi personally mentored training is as unique as you are.

Your fully mentored training means that some-one is holding space for you too

Some of the benefits of making Way of the Koi a part of your birth work practice may be:

  • Increased self-compassion (when you are motivated by self-compassion, failure is not an indicator of defeat, but a learning opportunity)
  • Stress reduction and increased oxytocin production (great traits in a Birth Worker!)
  • Deepened understanding of ourselves, our strengths and weaknesses
  • Opportunities for self-development
  • Reduced need to control or compete needlessly
  • Increased capacity to 'hold space' for others
  • Greater awareness of egoic behaviours (in both ourselves and others) and increased ability to respond with compassion
  • Joy and wonder! See the world a-new with a beginners mind.

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